Vyzkel he/he Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 2 minutes ago, J. Magi said: It's actually incredible how, when I'm upset or in a bad mood, my mom will give me a piece of 'advice' that is not only heart shattering but makes me feel a million times worse. Granted, I'm really sensitive. Her intentions couldn't be more innocent, she wants to help. And yet, I feel awful. Sounds horrible *hugs * 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Through The Living Glass She/Her Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 (edited) 18 hours ago, J. Magi said: It's actually incredible how, when I'm upset or in a bad mood, my mom will give me a piece of 'advice' that is not only heart shattering but makes me feel a million times worse. Granted, I'm really sensitive. Her intentions couldn't be more innocent, she wants to help. And yet, I feel awful. *hugs* Mine does the same thing... *more hugs* Edited July 23 by Through The Living Glass more hugs 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strmblsd he/him. (You lost the game) Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 Ok so last summer there was some stuff going on.. so I was pretty lost and friendless like all my friends stopped talking to me and I wasn't really part of the group and I remember at the end of each day counting the number of messages I got from them.. (keep in mind I tried texting a good 10 people a day) and I remember counting and the number going from about 15 at the start of the summer to 2 a day by the middle of end. And I almost feel like it's happening again I got like 6 yesterday and it is really hard on me.. I'm open to any advice 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pineap-spider Pineapple/Spider Posted July 24 Report Share Posted July 24 4 hours ago, strmblsd said: Ok so last summer there was some stuff going on.. so I was pretty lost and friendless like all my friends stopped talking to me and I wasn't really part of the group and I remember at the end of each day counting the number of messages I got from them.. (keep in mind I tried texting a good 10 people a day) and I remember counting and the number going from about 15 at the start of the summer to 2 a day by the middle of end. And I almost feel like it's happening again I got like 6 yesterday and it is really hard on me.. I'm open to any advice Firstly, *hugs* Secondly, maybe don’t put so much subtext on your count. Me and my friends (around 10 people in the group chat) don’t talk for days at a time. It’s summer, and me and my school friends don’t have school to talk about. We’re still friends, we just don’t text as much. If you need someone to reply, my PMs are open. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Through The Living Glass She/Her Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 12 hours ago, strmblsd said: Ok so last summer there was some stuff going on.. so I was pretty lost and friendless like all my friends stopped talking to me and I wasn't really part of the group and I remember at the end of each day counting the number of messages I got from them.. (keep in mind I tried texting a good 10 people a day) and I remember counting and the number going from about 15 at the start of the summer to 2 a day by the middle of end. And I almost feel like it's happening again I got like 6 yesterday and it is really hard on me.. I'm open to any advice *hugs* Honestly, I don't want to downplay your situation or anything like that at all, but this actually is also normal for my friends and I, as well! If it's different for you though, try reaching out first or asking interesting questions! That usually works when I want to talk to someone. *more hugs* *most hugs* 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueWildRye he/him Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 On 7/24/2024 at 5:36 AM, strmblsd said: Ok so last summer there was some stuff going on.. so I was pretty lost and friendless like all my friends stopped talking to me and I wasn't really part of the group and I remember at the end of each day counting the number of messages I got from them.. (keep in mind I tried texting a good 10 people a day) and I remember counting and the number going from about 15 at the start of the summer to 2 a day by the middle of end. And I almost feel like it's happening again I got like 6 yesterday and it is really hard on me.. I'm open to any advice *hugs* As for advice, well, there's nothing much you can do beyond texting them, so I'd say it's relatively out of your hands in terms of when they respond. I just want to tell you you did a great job in texting them in the first place *cough*cough* AHEM I TRY I PROMISE* but yeah. *hugs* *again* 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wittles he/him Posted August 15 Report Share Posted August 15 On 7/24/2024 at 4:36 AM, strmblsd said: Ok so last summer there was some stuff going on.. so I was pretty lost and friendless like all my friends stopped talking to me and I wasn't really part of the group and I remember at the end of each day counting the number of messages I got from them.. (keep in mind I tried texting a good 10 people a day) and I remember counting and the number going from about 15 at the start of the summer to 2 a day by the middle of end. And I almost feel like it's happening again I got like 6 yesterday and it is really hard on me.. I'm open to any advice That really sucks. I get it. That happened to me a few years ago. It's really hard. *hugs* Spoiler The only advice I have to give is pretty much just learn to detach and let go. Not in a way that closes you off to anything new ever, but accepting that things change and people leave and life goes on. This is just what worked for me, and feel free to just ignore this and take the hugs. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
who_slew_aicirtap she/they Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Starting school tomorrow. I've been dreading it all summer, and ended up having a panic attack because of it. I don't know how I'm going to get through another year of school. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xiahida Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 11 hours ago, liverthescourge said: Starting school tomorrow. I've been dreading it all summer, and ended up having a panic attack because of it. I don't know how I'm going to get through another year of school. *hugs* I enjoy just reading the Shard to destress, and people here are willing to help in any way they can. Just think about the day you are about to go through, and focus on that. One step at a time. *hugs* 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Through The Living Glass She/Her Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 14 hours ago, liverthescourge said: Starting school tomorrow. I've been dreading it all summer, and ended up having a panic attack because of it. I don't know how I'm going to get through another year of school. *hug* 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wittles he/him Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Today's been fine, but I didn't sleep very much at all last night so I slept in and missed a class. So I'm really close to being homeschooled which might be better in some ways, but considering I had a full on anxiety attack when I got home from school yesterday because I was home, I really don't want that to happen. I'm just really tired of not feeling safe in my own home and around my dad. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Through The Living Glass She/Her Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 18 minutes ago, Wittles said: Today's been fine, but I didn't sleep very much at all last night so I slept in and missed a class. So I'm really close to being homeschooled which might be better in some ways, but considering I had a full on anxiety attack when I got home from school yesterday because I was home, I really don't want that to happen. I'm just really tired of not feeling safe in my own home and around my dad. Ohhh... *hug* That's... kinda how it is with my mom. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wittles he/him Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 2 hours ago, Through The Living Glass said: Ohhh... *hug* That's... kinda how it is with my mom. Parent problems are the absolute freaking worst 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Through The Living Glass She/Her Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 10 minutes ago, Wittles said: Parent problems are the absolute freaking worst Yeah... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lego Mistborn he/him Posted August 24 Report Share Posted August 24 I thought I was done with this and over her enough to not do this, but I guess not. Yesterday I had institute (church classes for college age adults) and the whole time all I could think was, "if we were still together I could have invited her to come with me" and when I got home I cried again because I miss her. And I feel like I have no friends anymore, I stopped talking to them as much when I started dating and it's hard to bring any of my friendships back to life. I know that it's good for me that I'm not with her cause there were problems in that relationship, but I'm so lonely now and it's all I can think about. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Through The Living Glass She/Her Posted August 24 Report Share Posted August 24 2 minutes ago, Lego Mistborn said: I thought I was done with this and over her enough to not do this, but I guess not. Yesterday I had institute (church classes for college age adults) and the whole time all I could think was, "if we were still together I could have invited her to come with me" and when I got home I cried again because I miss her. And I feel like I have no friends anymore, I stopped talking to them as much when I started dating and it's hard to bring any of my friendships back to life. I know that it's good for me that I'm not with her cause there were problems in that relationship, but I'm so lonely now and it's all I can think about. *hug* 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wittles he/him Posted August 26 Report Share Posted August 26 On 8/24/2024 at 1:52 PM, Lego Mistborn said: I thought I was done with this and over her enough to not do this, but I guess not. Yesterday I had institute (church classes for college age adults) and the whole time all I could think was, "if we were still together I could have invited her to come with me" and when I got home I cried again because I miss her. And I feel like I have no friends anymore, I stopped talking to them as much when I started dating and it's hard to bring any of my friendships back to life. I know that it's good for me that I'm not with her cause there were problems in that relationship, but I'm so lonely now and it's all I can think about. *hugs* I'm sorry 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spark of Hope Oompa/Loompa/Doopidy/Doo Posted August 26 Report Share Posted August 26 On 8/24/2024 at 4:52 PM, Lego Mistborn said: I thought I was done with this and over her enough to not do this, but I guess not. Yesterday I had institute (church classes for college age adults) and the whole time all I could think was, "if we were still together I could have invited her to come with me" and when I got home I cried again because I miss her. And I feel like I have no friends anymore, I stopped talking to them as much when I started dating and it's hard to bring any of my friendships back to life. I know that it's good for me that I'm not with her cause there were problems in that relationship, but I'm so lonely now and it's all I can think about. *hugs* Do your friends know how you feel? Have you communicated with them? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lego Mistborn he/him Posted August 26 Report Share Posted August 26 37 minutes ago, Spark of Hope said: *hugs* Do your friends know how you feel? Have you communicated with them? I've tried reaching out to them, haven't got responses back from most. I've got friends from church who do still talk to me, but I never really talked to most of them outside of church things, so it's awkward trying to strike up convos now. So right now I've only got one running convo and then people on the shard who talk to me. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spark of Hope Oompa/Loompa/Doopidy/Doo Posted August 26 Report Share Posted August 26 1 minute ago, Lego Mistborn said: I've tried reaching out to them, haven't got responses back from most. I've got friends from church who do still talk to me, but I never really talked to most of them outside of church things, so it's awkward trying to strike up convos now. So right now I've only got one running convo and then people on the shard who talk to me. Based on wording, I assume you texted or something similar. Is it possible to see them in person? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lego Mistborn he/him Posted August 27 Report Share Posted August 27 1 hour ago, Spark of Hope said: Based on wording, I assume you texted or something similar. Is it possible to see them in person? Not really unless I already have convo going with them. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spark of Hope Oompa/Loompa/Doopidy/Doo Posted August 27 Report Share Posted August 27 9 hours ago, Lego Mistborn said: Not really unless I already have convo going with them. Are you not in school with them? Or something similar? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lego Mistborn he/him Posted August 27 Report Share Posted August 27 1 hour ago, Spark of Hope said: Are you not in school with them? Or something similar? Nope, I'm graduated 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spark of Hope Oompa/Loompa/Doopidy/Doo Posted August 28 Report Share Posted August 28 22 hours ago, Lego Mistborn said: Nope, I'm graduated Work? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strmblsd he/him. (You lost the game) Posted September 6 Report Share Posted September 6 ok so I don't know even I'm just nervous about everything with my friends again. especially my best friend. I feel like we aren't as close and he seems to hang out with other people and talk to them but never with me and I don't know what to do and I'm honestly just feeling bad about myself and I feel like my friends just aren't close to me.. (any advice or anything is welcome) 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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