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50 minutes ago, Soulbinder said:

Hypothetically speaking, how would one know if they’re gay?

Are you asking about yourself or someone else? Because if it’s the latter, generally asking em is a good move.

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2 hours ago, Koloss17 said:

Are you asking about yourself or someone else? Because if it’s the latter, generally asking em is a good move.

…hypothetically speaking, me.

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10 hours ago, Soulbinder said:

…hypothetically speaking, me.

Well, hypothetically, have you felt attracted to girls, whether romantically or sexually? Have any crushes on men felt more like you chose a friend or generally good-looking person and went "yeah he seems good" or thinking of him as a way to married life, stability, or something of the sort rather than someone you deeply love and want to date? Or hypothetically, have you ever thought "if I was into girls, I'd totally date her" or had detailed and emotionally invested fantasies (as in, not just "huh I wonder what that's like") about going out with or having sex with a girl? This is not an all-encompassing list, but it may give a hypothetical person somewhere to start. 

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And a big thing to keep in mind is that romantic or sexual attraction to one gender doesn’t immediately disqualify feelings for another. Sexuality is a spectrum, and it can be weird.

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My pride flag count for this month is disappointingly low (Utah) but at least I have my lock screen.

Also I think I'm he/they but I don't really like the term demiboy, does anyone know any other good terms for nonbinary but in like a masc way/ male but in a nonbinary way?

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1 hour ago, ShrubSeph said:

My pride flag count for this month is disappointingly low (Utah) but at least I have my lock screen.

Also I think I'm he/they but I don't really like the term demiboy, does anyone know any other good terms for nonbinary but in like a masc way/ male but in a nonbinary way?

Honestly? I don’t really know. I’m a she/they gal, and I generally define myself as transfemme, and for the normies trans woman. Though I also do like me the term femmeby (as opposed to enby), though I dunno about the masc variant.

Transmasc is always out there, but past that, I’m right there with ya brother (lest sib be the preferable tangential familial term)

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On 6/26/2024 at 5:43 PM, Koloss17 said:

Transmasc is always out there, but past that, I’m right there with ya brother (lest sib be the preferable tangential familial term)

I don't think transmasc really applies, I'm more transitioning away from being 100% male

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8 minutes ago, ShrubSeph said:

I don't think transmasc really applies, I'm more transitioning away from being 100% male

Ah. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I honestly dunno. Whatever term you feel describes you the most, or whatever you jive with is what you should use. Past that advice, I’m struggling to think of something.

@AonEne, good friend and queer, might you have thoughts?

 

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Hello hello I'm super late but yes! 

On 6/26/2024 at 4:29 PM, ShrubSeph said:

I think I'm he/they but I don't really like the term demiboy, does anyone know any other good terms for nonbinary but in like a masc way/ male but in a nonbinary way?

I'll lob some links at you, and you can scroll through there and see if anything describes you well - note that not all terms listed in these wikis are commonly used or identified with, but it's somewhere to start: 

https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Man 
https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Transmasculine 
https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Transfeminine 
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Masculine 
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Transfeminine_Man 

It's also just fine to stick with umbrella terms if those feel most applicable - 'nonbinary man', 'masc enby', 'transfem man', and so on. 

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sent before i meant to -_-
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On 8/11/2024 at 8:47 PM, Drehy said:

Best name I could think of. Couldn’t find a definitely bi male person in SA.

Wait, are you saying Bi King Adolin Kholin isn't "definitely bi" and that's only in my head?  After Chapter 12 of RoW? ;)

Welcome here!

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1 hour ago, Comatose said:

Wait, are you saying Bi King Adolin Kholin isn't "definitely bi" and that's only in my head?  After Chapter 12 of RoW? ;)

Welcome here!

Let me tell you I’m devastated that due to Mormonism, Shakadolin will never be a thing ;( 

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55 minutes ago, Koloss17 said:

Let me tell you I’m devastated that due to Mormonism, Shakadolin will never be a thing ;( 

Just because (SA Spoilers)

Spoiler

Kaladin is "too much of a prude" doesn't mean Adolin isn't interested (or Kaladin, for that matter ;) ).  
Like Veil says, no harm in appreciating beauty, haha.  

 

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