Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted April 14, 2022 Report Share Posted April 14, 2022 1 minute ago, Doomslug The Destroyer said: lemme guess you'd be in a 1x1 pm with someone you dont know irl? *nods* precisely. sorry. but. yeah. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 14, 2022 Report Share Posted April 14, 2022 (edited) CALLED IT! it's fine dude Edited April 14, 2022 by Doomslug The Destroyer 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted April 14, 2022 Report Share Posted April 14, 2022 2 minutes ago, Doomslug The Destroyer said: CALLED IT! it's fine dude lol. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morningtide she/her Posted April 14, 2022 Report Share Posted April 14, 2022 59 minutes ago, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: lol. My parents are the same way. I don't think that they know that you CAN PM on the shard, so I haven't been told not to but... yeah. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quivil she/her Posted April 14, 2022 Report Share Posted April 14, 2022 @Thaidakar the Ghostblood are you not allowed to PM with only one other person there or are you not allowed to PM? Am I allowed to know? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted April 15, 2022 Report Share Posted April 15, 2022 41 minutes ago, Tani said: @Thaidakar the Ghostblood are you not allowed to PM with only one other person there or are you not allowed to PM? Am I allowed to know? it's not that im not allowed to pm. im not allowed to share personal info... I was saying that stuff because if I went further with what I was saying to doomie it would reveal my age, something I would rather not have out in the open. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 15, 2022 Report Share Posted April 15, 2022 ...oh right it's bad to reveal your age. it's been open on my profile and ive openly said it for a few months now. i also did a face reveal. crud. have i revealed too much ab myself...? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#1 Taln Fan he/him Posted April 15, 2022 Report Share Posted April 15, 2022 On 2/5/2022 at 10:34 AM, #1 Taln Fan said: Nah I’m way more interested in books than in romance. This statement is ironic now lol 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morningtide she/her Posted April 15, 2022 Report Share Posted April 15, 2022 1 hour ago, Doomslug The Destroyer said: ...oh right it's bad to reveal your age. it's been open on my profile and ive openly said it for a few months now. i also did a face reveal. crud. have i revealed too much ab myself...? Nah. I'm not a stalker or anything. Lol. Aside from the face reveal, my profile has all the same info as yours 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revelryintheart she/her Posted April 16, 2022 Report Share Posted April 16, 2022 i'll see the guy i maybe(?????) like only one more time, and probably won't ever see him again 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 17, 2022 Report Share Posted April 17, 2022 ok people. i've come to an impasse with myself. remember that rant ab me having a huge crush on this one girl I know? I set a deadline for myself that I'd tell her in June, which is when my bday is, which is the age I can start dating (parental and religious rules) I am unsure if I can/want to wait that long to tell her. How do I put this... I've technically dated 2 other girls, one for 2 years, the other for a few months. These 2 relationships were insanely different from each other. Mostly because the girls' personalities were different as well. But to hold feelings like this in for 2 months, without a vent... Ok I've had some vents. Both here, and to another friend, but that's beside the point!! What i'm trying to say is, I like her a lot. Like, a lot a lot. And I've been holding these emotions inside for a while. And I don't know how much longer I can let them simmer before they bubble up and over the rim of the pot. And I'm worried. What if the words just burst out, then keep going? And it's awkward? I don't want that to happen. i want it to happen sort of like that, but I control when it happens, and I have at least some control over what I say. I don't know what to doooooo Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp meeeeeeeeeeee pleaaaaaaaaaseeeee. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Experience he/him Posted April 17, 2022 Report Share Posted April 17, 2022 On 4/15/2022 at 8:58 PM, revelryintheart said: i'll see the guy i maybe(?????) like only one more time, and probably won't ever see him again Explain 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revelryintheart she/her Posted April 18, 2022 Report Share Posted April 18, 2022 21 hours ago, Experience said: Explain we have one more dnd session before the semester ends and then i'm going on a mission in the fall and idk if i'll see him afterwards 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spren of Kindness she/her Posted April 18, 2022 Report Share Posted April 18, 2022 On 4/16/2022 at 6:27 PM, Doomslug The Destroyer said: ok people. i've come to an impasse with myself. remember that rant ab me having a huge crush on this one girl I know? I set a deadline for myself that I'd tell her in June, which is when my bday is, which is the age I can start dating (parental and religious rules) I am unsure if I can/want to wait that long to tell her. How do I put this... I've technically dated 2 other girls, one for 2 years, the other for a few months. These 2 relationships were insanely different from each other. Mostly because the girls' personalities were different as well. But to hold feelings like this in for 2 months, without a vent... Ok I've had some vents. Both here, and to another friend, but that's beside the point!! What i'm trying to say is, I like her a lot. Like, a lot a lot. And I've been holding these emotions inside for a while. And I don't know how much longer I can let them simmer before they bubble up and over the rim of the pot. And I'm worried. What if the words just burst out, then keep going? And it's awkward? I don't want that to happen. i want it to happen sort of like that, but I control when it happens, and I have at least some control over what I say. I don't know what to doooooo Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp meeeeeeeeeeee pleaaaaaaaaaseeeee. I've been there. I told someone I liked him, and yes, it was a little awkward. Stuff like this tends to be awkward, I think. But that's part of the journey, in a way. Overcoming that awkwardness to share your feelings takes bravery. My advice would be to think about what you want to say, and then, whether you wait until June or earlier, just say it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 18, 2022 Report Share Posted April 18, 2022 1 minute ago, Spren of Kindness said: I've been there. I told someone I liked him, and yes, it was a little awkward. Stuff like this tends to be awkward, I think. But that's part of the journey, in a way. Overcoming that awkwardness to share your feelings takes bravery. My advice would be to think about what you want to say, and then, whether you wait until June or earlier, just say it. I know it's all part of the journey, and that awkwardness is unavoidable. And thanks for the advice, I'm honestly never not thinking about how that interaction is gonna go. But another point, is that what if it scares her away? What then? I know I keep just talking about this, and I should probably stop, I'm sorry. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spren of Kindness she/her Posted April 18, 2022 Report Share Posted April 18, 2022 1 minute ago, Doomslug The Destroyer said: I know it's all part of the journey, and that awkwardness is unavoidable. And thanks for the advice, I'm honestly never not thinking about how that interaction is gonna go. But another point, is that what if it scares her away? What then? I know I keep just talking about this, and I should probably stop, I'm sorry. Hey, that's fine, I did the same thing to my sister once. Talking is really helpful! Honestly? I don't have much advice for that. I was very lucky, in that the guy in question was a very kind, mature person, and so that was never really a worry for me that I had to deal with. Just... trust that it's going to work out. Depending on the person, that might mean giving some time and space to think before gently revisiting the topic. I'm not sure if that helps, but that's sort of what my thoughts are. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 18, 2022 Report Share Posted April 18, 2022 That's... actually a really good idea. Thank you. The option to tell her, and then give her some space before either bringing it up myself again, or waiting for her to bring it up, is absolutely a lifesaver. I can't believe I hadn't thought of that. Thank you Also I completely relate to your rank title lmao. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 23, 2022 Report Share Posted April 23, 2022 Sorry for the double post, but I would like to share a traumatizing event I just went through. Also it's been like 5 days. So, I was telling me and my crushes mutual friend ab how I get to spend like all day with her tmrw. and she said "yeah you're making gay cinnamon rolls with your crush who does not like you back at all" i knew this but the convo kinda went downhill from there bc church is hosting a little prom tmrw night, and K (crush) will be there, so I am excited. Now, apparently, mutual friend (T) was talking to K ab that. And how we're going to it. K made it clear to T that it was just as friends, and T texted me as such, but in such a way that I then became super super anxious, and had a mini freak out while I waited for T to explain how she knew that "she doesn't like you back at all." which I knew, but it was worded horribly, so I was anxious and sad. now, everything was cleared up, but it was traumatizing bc i got scared. I also may have yelled at T, which is bad because it's rly mean (and other reasons i wont disclose), so i've been profusely apologizing for like 5 minutes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liahona Posted April 25, 2022 Report Share Posted April 25, 2022 I'm sorry, Doomie. That stinks. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 25, 2022 Report Share Posted April 25, 2022 12 minutes ago, Liahona said: I'm sorry, Doomie. That stinks. It stinks less... go look in the good news thread in General Discussion forum :> 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted April 28, 2022 Report Share Posted April 28, 2022 On 4/16/2022 at 6:27 PM, Doomslug The Destroyer said: ok people. i've come to an impasse with myself. remember that rant ab me having a huge crush on this one girl I know? I set a deadline for myself that I'd tell her in June, which is when my bday is, which is the age I can start dating (parental and religious rules) I am unsure if I can/want to wait that long to tell her. How do I put this... I've technically dated 2 other girls, one for 2 years, the other for a few months. These 2 relationships were insanely different from each other. Mostly because the girls' personalities were different as well. But to hold feelings like this in for 2 months, without a vent... Ok I've had some vents. Both here, and to another friend, but that's beside the point!! What i'm trying to say is, I like her a lot. Like, a lot a lot. And I've been holding these emotions inside for a while. And I don't know how much longer I can let them simmer before they bubble up and over the rim of the pot. And I'm worried. What if the words just burst out, then keep going? And it's awkward? I don't want that to happen. i want it to happen sort of like that, but I control when it happens, and I have at least some control over what I say. I don't know what to doooooo Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp meeeeeeeeeeee pleaaaaaaaaaseeeee. On 4/22/2022 at 6:19 PM, Doomslug The Destroyer said: Sorry for the double post, but I would like to share a traumatizing event I just went through. Also it's been like 5 days. So, I was telling me and my crushes mutual friend ab how I get to spend like all day with her tmrw. and she said "yeah you're making gay cinnamon rolls with your crush who does not like you back at all" i knew this but the convo kinda went downhill from there bc church is hosting a little prom tmrw night, and K (crush) will be there, so I am excited. Now, apparently, mutual friend (T) was talking to K ab that. And how we're going to it. K made it clear to T that it was just as friends, and T texted me as such, but in such a way that I then became super super anxious, and had a mini freak out while I waited for T to explain how she knew that "she doesn't like you back at all." which I knew, but it was worded horribly, so I was anxious and sad. now, everything was cleared up, but it was traumatizing bc i got scared. I also may have yelled at T, which is bad because it's rly mean (and other reasons i wont disclose), so i've been profusely apologizing for like 5 minutes. *tries not to say it* alright I'll say it. the drama has begun (I mean it already has.) um, I want to say something encouraging and inspirational, but nothing's coming to me. sooo, good luck? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 28, 2022 Report Share Posted April 28, 2022 OH HEY HI THIS EXISTS right so update: i posted an update in the Good News Thread in General Discussion forum, but I've recieved some revelation since then. so another update: I hung out with K yesterday, we're gonna write something together, and yesterday was the brainstorming session (well, one of them) and during that, at some point during our convo, she said she's really good at 'reading people.' Now, knowing her long as I have, I truly believe that. She followed up by saying that she doesn't read people in the moment, she reads them and unconsciously files away said 'reading' of the person. Once someone brings up that person, or something specific about that person, K remembers the 'reading' and realizes things ab the person. This made me worried, because what if she's realized I have a crush on her?? I'm decent at reading people as well, so I don't think she has, and instead, we're just absolutely best friends, and nothing's gonna stop that >:D I was sent a meme, called the ADHD iceberg. And for below the iceberg, it listed a bunch of weird criterion. One of them was "Being a good kisser," and I was going through the 6-7 criteria with K, and we reached "Being a good kisser." She said something along the lines of questioningly guessing. I responded "Why, do you wanna know if I am?" She laughed and said, "No, never." Doomslug-from-2-months-ago would have internally started crying. But funnily enough, I think the crush is weakening. Not going away, I don't think it'll ever do that, but it is mellowing. Doomslug-from-today can live with that, because I'm already in an awesome relationship with this amazing girl who is absolutely my best friend in the whole world. So, until further notice, I'm happily in this topic. Thanks for reading. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted April 28, 2022 Report Share Posted April 28, 2022 1 minute ago, Doomslug The Destroyer said: OH HEY HI THIS EXISTS right so update: i posted an update in the Good News Thread in General Discussion forum, but I've recieved some revelation since then. so another update: I hung out with K yesterday, we're gonna write something together, and yesterday was the brainstorming session (well, one of them) and during that, at some point during our convo, she said she's really good at 'reading people.' Now, knowing her long as I have, I truly believe that. She followed up by saying that she doesn't read people in the moment, she reads them and unconsciously files away said 'reading' of the person. Once someone brings up that person, or something specific about that person, K remembers the 'reading' and realizes things ab the person. This made me worried, because what if she's realized I have a crush on her?? I'm decent at reading people as well, so I don't think she has, and instead, we're just absolutely best friends, and nothing's gonna stop that >:D I was sent a meme, called the ADHD iceberg. And for below the iceberg, it listed a bunch of weird criterion. One of them was "Being a good kisser," and I was going through the 6-7 criteria with K, and we reached "Being a good kisser." She said something along the lines of questioningly guessing. I responded "Why, do you wanna know if I am?" She laughed and said, "No, never." Doomslug-from-2-months-ago would have internally started crying. But funnily enough, I think the crush is weakening. Not going away, I don't think it'll ever do that, but it is mellowing. Doomslug-from-today can live with that, because I'm already in an awesome relationship with this amazing girl who is absolutely my best friend in the whole world. So, until further notice, I'm happily in this topic. Thanks for reading. nice. it would be hilarious if said girl became a sander fan and started scrolling this thread. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medium he/they Posted April 28, 2022 Report Share Posted April 28, 2022 Just now, Thaidakar the Ghostblood said: nice. it would be hilarious if said girl became a sander fan and started scrolling this thread. she'd be lucky to know that the account Doomslug The Destroyer is her best friend 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaidakar the Ghostblood he/him Posted April 28, 2022 Report Share Posted April 28, 2022 Just now, Doomslug The Destroyer said: she'd be lucky to know that the account Doomslug The Destroyer is her best friend sounds like I have a job to do. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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